I've foundthe reason why we don't and actually we can't love or even like them.
This is kind of complicated. ...
It is affected by many hormones
When you fall in love with a man,your brain sends a message like he is your son and he must be yours and must act just in your Teri tory
So ...
You begin to hate whoever wants to enter your teritory ....
In this case
The more she is kind,the less you like her